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Flirty Techniques You Can Use to Be Funny (Without Sacrificing Your Dignity)

Flirty Techniques You Can Use to Be Funny (Without Sacrificing Your Dignity)

And how to practice your conversation skills the right way, because relying on “funny” without flirting lands you in the friend zone

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Lucien Cross
Feb 25, 2025
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Jokes don’t get you laid.

Neither does self-deprecating humor.

Casual conversation about the weather is boring, uninspiring, and isn’t arousing.

But what do we do about it?

Doesn’t the typical dating advice say that women love a guy who can be funny, and confident, but also masculine?

So, if jokes don’t get you laid or get girls to like you, then what are you supposed to do?

Impress her with logic?

No, women are moved by emotion.

You can still use humor, but it has to be used differently.

You’re about to learn 3 different improv techniques that you can use in your relationships or your dating life. Whether you already have a partner or not doesn’t matter.

Because I’m also going to walk you through how to tackle your social anxiety.

By the end of this, you should know how to develop the foundation to make someone smile, laugh, and come home with you.

TL;DR: Stop trying to be funny. Start being playful. That’s where the magic happens.

That’s the short answer, but there’s so much more to it than that.

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